INSIDE HW

Home

Contents

New/Recent Articles

Buy the Book!

 

DEPARTMENTS

Features

Celebrities

Relationships

Beauty & Style

Tips & Tricks

Health

DIY

COLUMNS

Goddess Horoscope

The Godmother

Special Report

 

Press/Awards

Send a Retro E-Card

Random Acts of Malice

Daily Sunsign Horoscope

Bookmark Us 

Contests

Good Clean Fun

 

MARCH  2010

Dear Madrone, Last year, my sister’s brother-in-law’s sister’s cousin  Reeda and her third husband Lou took one of those cruises where they have everything, food twenty four seven, gambling, nightclub, mini shopping mall, beauty parlors and even a discount bulk store for people who buy sequined caftans in mass quantity.  It sounded dreamy,  I admit I was completely jealous,  and bugged my husband to take me on a trip just like it, even though it cost an arm and and leg. So he did. And here’s the thing. It was HORRIBLE.  Just one tiny example, the spaghetti sauce was starchy. Can you imagine, for what we paid?  Corners were cut everywhere, seriously, at one point we all had to get out and help shove off, the boat was wedged in the slip.  And the islands we went to were so exclusive that nobody on earth has ever heard of them, because they didn’t actually exist.  How could these be? I’m not sure but I don’t think you can find the island of Aluba on any map. I tried.  Or Barpados.  Or St. Marvin’s.  I don’t know for sure, but now I’m thinking Reeda and Lou were blowing smoke up our you know whats.  So now we’re back and everyone wants to see pictures and hear all about it.  What do I say?  Do I lie and maybe some other sap gets pulled in like we did? Or do I tell the truth and have everyone laughing at us behind our backs because I made such a big deal out of going in the first place, and in fact, I told my own mother I couldn’t lend her any money for the heat bill this month, since we had paid up front for the trip.  It’s a mess.

Fried,  McAloo Ridge

Dear Fried, Should you lie? Probably half of one, six of another. Either way. Personally, I’m against lying except when it’s necessary,this doesn’t seem like such a big deal. An emergency would be when your boss who is a raging egomaniac asks you if you think he’s put on weight, and he’s really a fat pig, but what’s the point of  aggravating him, so you say something like, no I don’t think you’ve put on weight, without specifying that other people might think differently. In this case,  you can say something like, I can’t begin to tell you what a good time we had, and make an excuse about the pictures, about them being on line, or getting deleted.   Here’s the thing, mostly people are just being polite, they don’t really care.  If you think that somebody DOES really care,  then that person is a gem, and you should respect them by warning them off the same trip.  If you don’t want to say it straight out, just say that in all your days you’ve never done anything like it and they shouldn’t either.  Then make your eyes really big and nod your head like they understand exactly what you’re saying. And if they say, what ? You just say exactly. For most people that will end it, and on to discussing the price of beans.

Now there are two things here you didn’t mention as problems, but really are.

First Reeda and her hubby. Either they are liars like you are going to be, or they really liked the trip.    My advice is to avoid them.

Second.  Your mother.  Whatever goes on between you and her, not really my business and you didn’t ask.  So I’m just going to look at you with big eyes and zipped lip, and if you think you see me shaking my head like I can’t believe what I heard you say about heat bills, that’s not my problem. 

God bless, Donna

 READERS-  About lying.  Not usually a good idea.  But if you do it,  for the love of Pete, don’t get caught.   And if you don’t get caught,  then don't go and do something dumbheaded like confess out of guilt.  It’s double insulting to the people who believed you in the first place. 

 


.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Pamela Bongiorno Monk is a full time faculty member of Penn State University, where she teaches creative writing, both fiction and non fiction. She pursues freelance writing, authoring plays and feature articles. She has broken nearly as many rules of family as she has enforced.

Rules of Family Archive

Donna's Blog

This Issue


 

Write for HW!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Unless otherwise noted all material © 2000 - 2006 Sharon Grehan -Howes (Sharon Jeffcock) Happy Woman Magazine All Rights Reserved

TERMS AND CONDITIONS | PRIVACY POLICY | CONTACT US | SITE MAP | SUBMISSION GUIDELINES

Please Note:This site is a parody of women's magazines so don't come crying to us if someone took out your liver by accident or you starved to death on one of our diets.

Use of this site is subject to certain terms and conditions which constitute a legal agreement between you and www.happywomanmagazine.com